HARDWICK – Richard “Dick” Alan Barnes passed away peacefully at his home of 61 years, surrounded by the love and legacy he built over a remarkable lifetime.
Born in Island Pond to James and Pearl (Langmaid) Barnes, Richard grew up alongside his three brothers and sister. He was a son of the Northeast Kingdom who carried it’s values of hard work, loyalty and grit with him all his days.
A blind date arranged by dear friends Dick and Charlotte Webster turned into the love story of his life. Richard and his wife, Lorraine, shared 53 years of marriage, countless adventures and a family that became his proudest achievement. Together they raised three children; Vincent (Edna), Kelly (Richard) and Gregory (Kelly). He was grandfather to Renee, Christopher (Emily), Heather, Chad (Danielle), Jamie (Shawn), Andrew, Morgan (Drew) and Ethan and great-grandfather to Ava Grace, Haile, Cali, Ivy, Christopher, MaKenzie, Frankie, Charlie and Blakely. His wheelbarrow was a beloved “chariot” for many of them, his lap a classroom where shoes were tied and his presence a steady anchor for the whole family.
Richard served in both the U.S. Army and National Guard for 16 years, taking great pride in his service to the country he so deeply cherished. He went on to earn high accolades in sales, traveling throughout the Northeast, yet always finding his way back home to family, neighbors and friends.
He was generous with his time and talents, volunteering to help countless people earn diplomas, certifications and confidence in themselves. He was a firm believer in self-betterment and lifted up those around him, often in ways they never forgot. A visit with him, whether on a neighbor’s porch or over a puzzle, always came with a quick wit, an unexpected quip, and perhaps a sharp tongue softened by humor.
A voracious reader, a lover of brain teasers and a life-long learner, Richard never stopped feeding his curiosity about the world. He was proud of his nation, steadfast in his devotion to his family and expressive in his own way, making sure people knew he cared even if he didn’t put it into words.
Richard’s story is one of service, love, humor and steadfastness. He will be remembered not only for what he achieved but for how he lived: with pride, with purpose and with a spark that brightened the lives around him.
In keeping with his wishes, there will be no formal services. In lieu of flowers or gifts the family asks that you honor Richard by taking a few extra moments with someone else, offering your time or guidance in a way that helps them improve their life, just as he so often did.
Condolences and memories of Richard may be shared with his family at dgfunerals.com.
